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Open Question: why doesn't my husband listen to me?!?
im 23years old & my husband is 33years old. We have been together 6years & married over 2years. I have had confidance problems since my mum died lastyear & sufferd with depression. However i am on the mend... For the past 2months my husband best mate has been over once-twice during the week & EVERYWEEKEND for the past 2months. I get on with him fine but his girlfriend is very miserable & moody & has bad mood swings. I have explaiend to my husband how i feel & that after 2months worth of everyweekend i would like some time alone with just him. He works during the weeks late hours so i only see him at weekends,so when his mate is here i only get 1day a week with him. He gets in from work,i have his tea ready,do his lunch for work,his washing etc...he sits on the laptop,then plays ps3 so i go into bedroom to watch tv. I just feel that lately he doesnt want to be with me. We havent been intermate for a few months now. When he is with his mate & his partner he livens up,has a laugh & makes more effort yet at home its like he doesnt wana be around me,he tells me im being stupid but its how i feel. I try & explain to him but he doesnt listen.....Am i wrong for asking him to give his mate a break for a week or 2 to spend time with him alone? I have said maybe we could do things together like bowling,fishing or something but he isnt keen...... I just feel lonely even when he is here with me.I tell him how i feel & if he doesnt agree he'll shout at me & upset me. im alwys being told im too nice to people & now its like he takes advantage of that. last week his mate was over,iwas watching tv & he said we'd like just one game on ps3,i wasnt keen but said ok... after that one game i was liek my program now please but he went & played another game & made me sound like a nagging wife i felt awful! I wasnt feeling well either which i was anoyed at as he knew this but had his mate over anyway. Am i bad for asking this question? but why doesnt he listen to me? I know we have an age difference & im growing up now but could this be it are we different?? I love him with all my heart but im fed up of crying etc & i never say much now as he promises but never sticks to it for the past 2years we have been living away from my family & friends so i rarely see them & have no friends where i live at the mo. we are moving to my dads though next week so i can see my friends again. i stopped seeing them as before i got married i ws accused of cheating with everyone & yet it was him who ended up cheating & we split up for 2months. i feel we will split again for one reason or another.... since my depression i find it hard to leave the house as im shy & unconfidant & i worry what people think of me.... im nice to everyone & now its comming back to bite me! :( to the person who said make my self more attractive i have tried this & doesnt always work.... & with depression its hard! i dont feel comfortable in my skin when im doing things for him. i just sit & cry because i feel worthless & he doesnt want to be with me & yet he doesnt help by upsetting me DK41 thanks. i had a hard childhood as was put into care aged 4 & then adopted ged 7 & never got on with my mum,my birth dad died who i was close to. my mum died last year. i met my husband after leaving secondary school. i have grown up alot in past few years & lthough i love him i just feel i have no life & we have nothing in common anymore... as im growin up im changing. i would like to get tattoos etc but he has told me if i get anymore he will leave me as he thinks women with loads of tattoos look ugly!
Open Question: how do i save my dying fish!?!?
I have a goldie, and its dying! its on its side at the bottem of the bowl. it only opens its gills whenever i tap on the glass! what can i do to save him!!!!!???